The Unfair Hate Against Rashmika Mandanna
Rashmika Mandanna has once again become the target of online trolling and memes following news of her engagement to actor Vijay Deverakonda. The renewed criticism recalls an earlier chapter in her life: her engagement to Rakshit Shetty, which ended in 2018.
Rashmika and Rakshit were engaged in 2017 after meeting on the set of Kirik Party. At the time, she was 21 and he was 34. The engagement was called off reportedly due to compatibility issues, a decision many fans now argue was mature and sensible. Yet, even years later, a section of social media continues to label her as “selfish” or a “opportunist,” ignoring that ending an engagement is far better than entering a marriage that isn’t right.
When Rashmika’s relationship with Vijay Deverakonda became public, trolls were quick to revive past accusations. Social media users criticised her for moving on, claiming she prioritised career or financial gains over love. However, these claims ignore the realities of youth and personal growth. Rashmika was at the beginning of her career when she made her first engagement decision. Critics often forget that at 21, very few people have the clarity to make lifelong commitments, especially under the public gaze.
Commentators and fans have pointed out the double standard in how female celebrities are treated. Male actors frequently change partners or relationships without enduring long-term trolling. Rashmika, like many women in the spotlight, faces disproportionate scrutiny for decisions that are personal, valid, and ultimately about her happiness.
Part of the backlash also stems from regional sentiment. Some sections of Karnataka’s audience feel a sense of ownership over local stars, leading to heightened criticism when they move on to broader film industries or personal relationships. Social media amplifies these reactions, often turning them into memes or ridicule that miss the nuances of human choice.
Supporters argue that Rashmika’s story should be reframed. She made choices appropriate for her age and career stage. Breaking an engagement at 21, rather than rushing into marriage, demonstrates maturity, not selfishness. Today, her engagement to Vijay Deverakonda is a continuation of her journey toward personal and professional fulfilment.
The episode highlights a larger cultural issue: the tendency to scrutinise women’s private lives while ignoring their right to happiness. Rashmika Mandanna’s experience is a reminder that public figures deserve empathy, and that old decisions shouldn’t be weaponised as fodder for ridicule. Choosing one’s path is not a crime—especially when it is done with honesty and self-respect.
